Khuzaima Pishori
3 min readNov 2, 2020

Love Is In The Air

“Dude look at you, you are not even organised, your handwriting sucks! And look at her, she is soo good at almost everything, how is she even still up with you?! "

Today, I want to answer to these type questions for myself and on behalf of those who were asked—
I accept, I agree, yes, I’m not organised, yes my handwriting is worse than a toddler. And yet, she’s right there beside me, not leaving me stranded because if I can’t organize, she knows she can help me with it. If I cannot write "Happy Birthday" neatly on a birthday card, she knows she can do that for me.
Relationship is not always about two partners having mutual properties.
If she is weak at Mathematics, you can help her improve.
If you don’t know Chemistry, then she can help you improve.
If y’all both don’t know Accounts learn together.
Relationship is not only about mating, and understanding. It’s about Trust, Learning and Patience too.
Imagine this, you have a presentation in class, you don’t know how to make a good PPT in a short period of time, but your partner does know. I’m not saying be dependent, what I’m trying to say is, it’s not bad to not have or to not know something your partner does, it’s not bad to not be as equal as your partner. Comparing each other on the basis of education and knowledge won’t do any good. If A loves B because B has an excellent nature and keeps A happy, it does not mean A will hate B because B is not good with studies. Infact, A will help B to cope up with studies. A will take help from B too if A lacks knowledge. So don’t judge people or couples on the basis of knowledge and SIMILARITIES. Not every Pierre Curie has to have a Marie Curie. Jake Peralta can also work with Amy Santiago, and almost all of us know, that is an unexpected couple.

Also, accepted, not everything is perfect in this world. But anything can be close to perfect only and only if you rectify the mistakes rather than pointing them out.
For many of you, LOVE is- 'Moh Maya(Scam)’, 'Not Possible in this generation’, 'Karke kya faaida(Whats the point?)’.
We all have ups and downs in our lifes. You think because someone cheated on you, and this happened not once but twice, and because of which you don’t want to be in a relationship. If you think about this closely, the only things you gained from this is FEAR, whether to like or love someone or not, HATRED, towards Love, and ladt but not the least, HOPE, you lost hope from getting loved or liked by someone special.
Give it another try, this time be more careful with your choice, maybe know the person a little more than the last ones, not every person is same. Beauty is not everything, the heart plays a vital role too, so does brawns.

P.S: I have been inspired to write by Storiyaan. Thank you for giving motivation towards writing.
https://www.storiyaan.com/

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Khuzaima Pishori
Khuzaima Pishori

Written by Khuzaima Pishori

A Japanese saying= "Everyone shall shine someday"

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